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Each moment of life, with all its
apparent imperfections and shortcomings, is complete, perfect,
and sacred just the way it is. Nothing need be added, subtracted,
or changed in any way--nothing, that is, except our perception,
our point of view. Throughout history, all the great masters
and sages have realized this essential truth.
As simple as this truth may seem, however, it tends to elude
us because we've been conditioned to view life in terms of
the apparent separate self we imagine ourselves to be. From
this point of view, which is grounded in time, life is a struggle
to survive in a difficult, imperfect world.
The spiritual "journey" involves awakening from
this dream of separation and realizing the peace and happiness of
our essential nature, which is pure wakefulness or presence,
untouched and undisturbed by the struggles and circumstances
of life.
Sometimes this awakening occurs spontaneously--and then it
can be invaluable to have a seasoned spiritual teacher or
counselor who knows the terrain themselves to help guide us
through the process. More often, this awakening can be ignited
and clarified by a relationship with such a person, someone
who is grounded in wakefulness and devoted to nurturing it
in others.
In addition, both before and after awakening, numerous issues
and challenges arise on the journey that invite us to look
more deeply at our conditioned patterns of thinking and behaving
and loosen our identification with our beliefs, stories, and
familiar self-concepts. For this, a skilled counselor trained
in both Western psychology and nondual wisdom can be an extraordinary
resource.